It doesn’t make sense at all as to why people have to interfere in other's well being. If there is nothing positive to be said about a person, then there should very well be an advantage to enumerate the defects of that person. And if there isn’t any, then what is the reason in pointing out the differences? Is it to show that you are stronger and successful than others, is it that you hate him/her to that very extent or is it sheer pleasure out of being rude to whom they consider weak and driving them nuts?
Psychologically, there is no answer to these questions. But there still exists a larger set of such people who can mock at others without remorse and still walk away from them without giving any explanations for their shameful acts. It is completely insane but the frequency of such events put light to some sanity in the happening of such events. A perfect day is ruined, a life troubled and a world devastated, just because somebody thought that it was fun in mocking others and proving them to be a dunce.
Why can’t lives be normal and less complicated? Why can’t they live their own lives and let others lead theirs. Is it so important to advertise your happiness at the cost of ruining somebody else'? But then if you are confident about yourself, strong enough to handle your critics and have been on the receiving end numerous times, why should these preposterous comments made by others, actually bother you?
The key to understanding the myth behind the botheration is that somebody who matters or have mattered to you in the recent past has the power to inflict so much pain into you that you can die if you lose the battle completely. The only way out of this situation is to strike back if you think you are equally powerful or else ignore them completely and make them realize that they are the one who have made a fool out of themselves by lowering themselves to the standards of a street toddler and in the process, losing their dignity and value. There is a cliché that “Ignorance is bliss” and it works on most occasions in the favor of the victim, if that’s the right terminology to be used in this context. As rightfully said in the movie 'The Pursuit of Happyness' by the character 'Christopher Gardener', "Don't ever let someone tell you, you can't do something. You got a dream, you got to protect it. People can’t do something themselves, they want to tell you that you can’t do it. You want something, go get it".
Psychologically, there is no answer to these questions. But there still exists a larger set of such people who can mock at others without remorse and still walk away from them without giving any explanations for their shameful acts. It is completely insane but the frequency of such events put light to some sanity in the happening of such events. A perfect day is ruined, a life troubled and a world devastated, just because somebody thought that it was fun in mocking others and proving them to be a dunce.
Why can’t lives be normal and less complicated? Why can’t they live their own lives and let others lead theirs. Is it so important to advertise your happiness at the cost of ruining somebody else'? But then if you are confident about yourself, strong enough to handle your critics and have been on the receiving end numerous times, why should these preposterous comments made by others, actually bother you?
The key to understanding the myth behind the botheration is that somebody who matters or have mattered to you in the recent past has the power to inflict so much pain into you that you can die if you lose the battle completely. The only way out of this situation is to strike back if you think you are equally powerful or else ignore them completely and make them realize that they are the one who have made a fool out of themselves by lowering themselves to the standards of a street toddler and in the process, losing their dignity and value. There is a cliché that “Ignorance is bliss” and it works on most occasions in the favor of the victim, if that’s the right terminology to be used in this context. As rightfully said in the movie 'The Pursuit of Happyness' by the character 'Christopher Gardener', "Don't ever let someone tell you, you can't do something. You got a dream, you got to protect it. People can’t do something themselves, they want to tell you that you can’t do it. You want something, go get it".
This is exactly what you ought to tell your conscience. Let your achievements in due course prove to these set of people that you follow the saying “Fools dance where angels fear to walk”.
4 comments:
Well whatever facts you have tried to pen down in this article are absolutely true and I absolutely agree with majority of them apart from the line that 'Is it important to advertise your happiness at the cost of ruining somebody else'?', I feel that in the whole world everyone cannot be happy at the same time.The time when someone is happy he/ she like to share it with the world and the world thinks it to be other way round.Ofcourse there are people who do that purposely but not all.Rest each and every word of it is true and very admirable...keep it up..hope to see regular and interesting blogs ahead..cheers!!
Thanks for your comments, rucha. I am not denying the fact tht everyone cannot be happy. I am visualising an event, where other things remaining constant, people are content in their own lives, no matter wht kind of sorrow they have. I am against those set of people who have no producitivity left in their lives and tend to interfere negatively into other's lives. I strongly believe in the fact, which you have also seconded tht when someone is happy, they like to share it with others. But in here, the context is totally different. Wht I mean by the statement 'Is it important to advertise your happiness at the cost of ruining somebody else'?' tht these people derive happiness out of troubling others, playin with their emotions, which I believe is very wrong on their part to do. Wht do you think?
I agree so thts why i have written.."Ofcourse there are people who do tht purposely"
yeah, that makes sense.
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